FAQs (Frequently Asked Questions) Sharon C. Greenberg, Ph.D.    
Licensed Clinical Psychologist    
919 Fremont Ave., Suite 202, Los Altos, CA 94024    
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Sharon C. Greenberg, Ph.D.
Sharon C. Greenberg, Ph.D.


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Q. How do I know if I need to see a psychotherapist?

A. Just because you experience challenges in life doesn't mean you need therapy. Life is full of ups and downs. The deciding factor of whether to enter therapy should more often be if you experience problems in life that upset you and that you have tried to fix on your own but simply can't seem to make much headway. If you have experienced patterns in your adult relationships that you don't really like and you find they keep repeating themselves - these are things that often can be changed through therapy.

 

Q. What are the most common problems people have?

A. Relationship difficulties is the number one problem presented to therapists. Anxiety, stress, and depression are also common complaints. Alcohol problems and eating issues are also frequently discussed.

 

Q. What are some specific problems for which I should consider psychotherapy?

A. If you have any of the experiences below regularly enough to seriously influence the quality of your life:

Feel anxious, have panicky feelings, are often stressed, depressed, or hopeless.
Marital Problems.
Worry about eating compulsively.
Recent divorce or separation.
Parenting concerns or issues that you simply wish to consult with about difficulties one of your children is having.
Have eating, sleeping, or sexual problems.
Have a history of abuse in your past or are currently involved in an abusive relationship.
Dislike patterns that you find yourself repeating in relationships.
Coping with a recent death in the family.
Are concerned about alcohol or drug use.
Worry excessively.
Behave in self-destructive ways.
Dislike your job intensely.
Experience chronic health problems (headaches, digestive problems, back pain)

 

Q. What different approaches to therapy are there?

A. While each of the main approaches each have a variety of offshoots, the primary two theoretical approaches are psychodynamic and cognitive-behavioral approaches.

Psychodynamic therapy includes examining and resolving unconscious conflicts. The client's early history is seen as extremely important in the forming of the character of the person and in the forming of patterns of unconscious thinking that may influence people in their present day life. The relationship between the therapist and the client is also seen as very important and is primary in the healing process.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy focuses on helping clients identify and examine faulty beliefs and ineffective behaviors. It is focused on the present and the client's family background is seen as less relevant. Unconscious patterns are not examined, nor are dreams, or the relationship between the client and therapist.

I operate from a psychodynamic background primarily. I believe that that is the way to heal individuals on a longer term basis. While it is important to incorporate some cognitive work, and I do, I believe without looking at the patterns that were adaptive to help people deal with whatever they needed to in childhood, these patterns cannot be changed in adulthood. These are often the very things that get in the way of people enjoying their life today.

 

Q. Is therapy effective?

A. Most people who attend therapy report that, because of therapy, they feel better about themselves and more confident that they can handle the problems of their lives. Factors that may contribute to the success or failure of therapy include: the difficulty of the problem; the competence of the therapist, the motivation of the client to apply therapeutic principles, and the length of therapy. One of the most important factors in successful therapy is that you feel good about your therapist and view the m as competent, someone you can trust, kind, open, healthy, and a person who understands you and works well with you.

 

Q. What are the differences between a psychologist (Ph.D.), a psychiatrist (M.D.), and a marriage family and child counselor (LMFCC)?

A. A psychologist received a Ph.D. from a university or professional school. A psychiatrist received an M.D. from medical school, and an LMFCC has a masters degree. While they all do may conduct therapy, a psychologist's major training during graduate school is on the methods of doing therapy and theory of human development and is additionally trained in assessment; A psychiatrist had to first learn to understand the human body first and can prescribe medication, but must obtain training in doing therapy secondarily if they wish. I am a clinical psychologist. As I am a psychologist, I am biased toward the training that these professionals have if you are looking for a skilled therapist knowledgeable about human behavior. I do refer to psychiatrists when medication is indicated. If you haven't been hospitalized and don't think you will need to be, I would suggest starting with a psychologist; if you do think you will require hospitalization, start with a psychiatrist.

 

Q. Who asks for help from a psychotherapist?

A. Many types of people see a therapist. As a matter of fact, more than 10 million Americans see a therapist every year. Of these, in my practice about half are men and half are women. Many women tend to be less hesitant about starting therapy, but once then begin, men often find they get an enormous amount out of therapy and like going.

 

Q. How long does therapy usually last?

A. Therapy lasts various lengths for various people. Some individuals who may have a very specific problem may gain what they need in only a few sessions. Sometimes clients require more therapy to reach their desired goals. The major client factors that contribute to the length of time include: the presenting problem(s); the client's current situation; the client's family history; the client's personality; the client's capacity and willingness to make any necessary changes. Basically, the answer is similar to the question of how long does it take to read a book - it depends on how long the book is, how fast you read, and how compelling the book is.

A clinical psychologist in Los Altos, California, Dr. Greenberg's office is easily accessible from most of the cities within the Silicon Valley / Bay Area, including Los Altos, Los Altos Hills, Mountain View, Palo Alto, Menlo Park, Atherton, Saratoga, Sunnyvale, Los Gatos, Santa Clara, and San Jose.